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early in the morning, i went to the restaurant [which/where] my tour guide had appointed for meeting. it was only second day in egypt, but already i was regretting the day [which/when] i had settle for flying back home.
학교 시험에 나온건데요

저는 첫번째껀 had appointed의 목적어로 the restaurant가 있어야된다고 생각해서 which를 했구요

두번째것도 had settle 의 목적어로 the day 가 있어야될거같아서 which 골랐는데

논란이 많네요.. 어떤게맞을까요