when parents tell a child, “you’re such a good boy,” he may not be able to accept it because his own picture of himself is quite different. in his own eyes, he cannot be “good” when only recently he wished that his mother would disappear or that his brother would spend next weekend in the hospital.여기에서 when only가 어떻게 해석되는건가요???~하기를 소망했는데 자기가 착해보일리가 없다 라고 해석이 되던데 저게 도대체 어떻게 해석되는지 모르겠네요.