1. on the other side, tales filtering back to russia of internet marriages gone soure - including the murder of a russian e-mail-order bride in the u.s.- have put women on their guard.2. a woman need only be attractive and educated, but a man must have property,means, and a good job.3. why would anyone say no to that?4. an unsuspecting western man falls in love after a few gushing e-mail exchanges with a false identity posted on a website - sometimes the photos are actually of a russian actress or fashion model - and is persuaded to wire cash for a ticket to visit him, or to meet some personal emergency.5. russian women insist it is they who face the greatest hazards.